Douchbags

Honestly, I really don't understand people do cruel things to each other.

This DJ we know started going out with a Techno DJ called Comix Vixen. I don't know her personally but we see her at a lot of the parties that we attend. She's a pretty cool girl. Really down-to-earth. The guy's ex, although a nice girl, was also a bit of a bitch. Their relationship was crazy. One minute they're ok. The next minute, they're fighting with each other. It's extreme love and hate.

Comix Vixen is a little more sane and not as crazy so I thought they were good together. It turns out, he's been cheating on her and James was in the room when the ex called her to tell her all about it. How awful is that!

It looks like ever since they had started going out with each other, he's been sleeping with his ex. And they have a few gigs coming up where they are playing together as a tag team set. This is the second tag team couple we know who have broken up and ...

I just really don't condone this kind of behavior. What the hell?! Why ruin a good thing by screwing around like that! It really makes me sad. People, good people, shouldn't be treated in that way. I am sure, in his own way, he really wanted to make it work for Vixen but just couldn't get away from his ex for reasons unknown and uncared for (on my part). No reason is good enough to cheat on someone you're in a relationship with. If all you wanted was a quick fuck with someone you say you don't care about, why be in a relationship with someone else?!

I'm just so digusted. I abhor cheaters.

This also made me think of Lance. I know he is a one-woman man but already there has been two cheating rumors and...I hope that if he does screw up, someone will tell me. The last thing I want is to be involved with someone who doesn't respect me enough to be loyal to me and love me the way I love him. I know my worth and I know that I don't deserve to be manhandled like that.